Most of the people I meet I never mention because there isn’t really anything to say. Some like Arun in Oman, Peter in Cairns, Susan in Fiji, and others deserve special mention. As it is usually the case now, most of the people I meet are readers of the blog or follow me on Twitter. Occasionally, however, I meet someone special, totally unexpected and out of the blue. That was the case in Paris when I ran into June.
After getting our tickets and standing in line for 90 minutes, we ended up spending the rest of our time in Versailles together taking photos and just chewing the fat as we walked around the gardens desperately trying to find out where and when the water show was taking place. (we ended up missing it). After that we took the train back to Paris and ended up getting dinner at a French/Vietnamese fusion restaurant with her friend Gordan who was also from Australia and who was in Paris for a conference. She poured us water while explaining that in China it is the woman’s role to pour water for the men, which of course made us both pour water for her later on which she didn’t object to at all.
After lunch we walked towards the Louvre and visited the Musée de l’Orangerie to look at Monet’s Water Lillies and had a chocolate crepe with banana. Afterword, we headed to the subway and we each went to our respective hotels. I didn’t have a cell phone so she couldn’t contact me and I couldn’t contact her. I was kicking myself for not arranging to meet up with her for dinner that evening.
And that was it.
Total time from running into her at Versailles to parting ways in the metro was bout 30 hours. It was a friendship with the lifespan of a mayfly, and sadly it couldn’t have been any other way. If circumstances were any different, even slightly, we never would have met. If I had taken 30 seconds more in getting from the train to the line in Versailles, we would have missed each other. If she had stopped to pick up a coin, she would have been in a different spot in line.
The most memorable things you experience when traveling are the things you can’t plan for. You can check off all the places in your guidebook, but the things you will remember most are the ones which are the result of serendipity.
How very true! I loved reading your post and remembering things like this that have happened to me along the way…very poignant, and it made me smile! Thanks for sharing your unplanned encounter.
good. would be interesting to learn things from a worldwide travelers and also give you some tips.
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I find this very Interesting to meet people like that when you travel. I learned that when you travel alone, it is easier to meet people. That’s because you are more open. However even though, I am from Paris. People there are less open due to that it is a big city I guess. I live in Madrid now and people are open minded. I really love what you are doing. I should do the same myself and travel more.
I will be in Madrid in a few days.
I disagree with the first poster. I think Paris is a wonderful place and love the culture.
Sometimes part of the travel experience is meeting people along the way. Occasionally, there will be someone you clicked with and you can talk for hours.
Sometimes I wonder about the people I’ve missed along the way. Those moments that were missed. The times I stopped to pick up that coin.
Really nice piece, Gary. It’s a nice reminder to remember sometimes there is no “good and bad” when travel. Just what unfolds in front of you.
Paris is boring. There is nothing exciting there. I would never go there
Hi Gary,
Thank you for your blog. When June returned to Australia she told me about meeting you. It’s wonderful.
I first met June at a serendipitous moment on a platform at Central station in Sydney one evening in 2002. We have been friends ever since. What a special lady!
I do hate the goodbyes (which I tend to re-brand as “see you laters”), but the friendships – however short lived they may be – are worth every bit of effort. There are so many people like June that I could profile from my own travel experiences, having had so many similar encounters.
Great article!
There is nothing better then meeting people you click with while travelling. They make it all worthwhile!
Great post!
i love these moments – and how much we can learn from them. excellent article, gary!
Travels are really about the local people you meet and unexpected turns that gives you experiences you will never forget. Never say no to a challenge or new experience! The only bad thing is all the people you have to say goodbye to when traveling around, but at the same time you get so many different friends.
Beautiful post!! What a way to enjoy one of the best city. It probably made it more memorable to you because you shared it with June.
I always say- “Everything happens for a reason”. You were meant to run into each other. Nice post.
Great post – you’re getting me to fell all sentimental here. Reminds me of one of my favorite travel movies “Before Sunset.”
Same here .. and also remenbering a few of these encounters i’ve been blessed with. Most of us are durign our lifespan.
Serendipity is an every corner of our travels. I’m glad your stay in Paris was made even more memorable because of your encounter with June.